f Second Generation Connection: February 2006

Thursday, February 23, 2006

Olympic Spirit


Our little athlete competed in her first Gymnastics meet. After training for over a year and a half. Spending 3 days a week for 2 hours at the gym, our daughter got to see how good she was at something she loves doing. Her friends even showed up with a poster sign to cheer her on. Although she was nervous, she nailed her bar routine, beam routine and floor routine . She did well on her vault too. She ended up getting Blue ribbons for the first three routines and a red ribbon for her vault and overall team result. I didn't know what a blue or red ribbon meant. I had to search the web to find out what the ribbons meant. Blue ribbon is first place and red ribbon is second place. Theses success are demonstrating to her that her hard work ethic pays! Makes you wonder how far she might go! Maybe the Olympics :-) Even if she doesn't compete in another event, I happy with what she has already accomplished.

Sunday, February 19, 2006

Nor'easter 2006

Last week we got hit with the first Nor'easter of 2006. Our dog had a good time getting out in the snow. Here I am "Lookin out my backdoor" watching my dog going outside in the middle of the snow storm. Don't click on the link unless you have broadband. It is a 17 meg file video file. We got 18 inches of snow. The snow disappeared this past Wednesday because of the 50 degree weather we had.

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Pay too much for your house?

This website was just too cool to not share. It just went live this past week in beta. Zillow.com Since we moved this past year, I wasn't completely sure if we had sold our house for a steal or gotten our new one for a steal. It turns out we did alright on both. :-) If you curious to see what the real estate market is doing in your neighborhood and want to know how much your house is worth don't bother going to a real estate agent. Just check out this web site.

Friday, February 10, 2006

What will you be when you grow up?


When I was a kid growing up I use to enjoy watching the construction workers digging utility trenches with the big excavators. As I grew older I had to figure out what to study and ultimately what do when I grew up. As I recently told a friend, I thought the only successful career opportunities were to be doctor, lawyer or engineer. I guess since I enjoyed watching construction growing up as a kid, I figured that would be to become a Civil Engineer. Only after I graduated from college did I realize all the other career possibilities that existed. I never realized that someone could make a living doing art, writing, or even as a photographer or actor. I wanted to share with you 2 great examples of people doing what they love and being able to make a successful living at it.

I am very impressed with people who pursue their dreams and that work hard perfecting their art or trade. Perfecting their trade to a point where they are able to make a huge positive difference in world and at the same time make a very good living. So what spurred me to write about this tonight? We took the kids to an evening performance of Hero Art. It was a fund raising event for the school system the kids previously attended before we moved. The 1 1/2 hour show was a combination of video and music presentation that played while Rob Surette the artist painted portraits of famous historical figures who have made great contributions to society. He painted a portrait of Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King, Ludwig Beethoven, Albert Einstein, Mother Theresa and the Statue of Liberty. In between the paintings he spoke about the people he painted and their accomplishments. He had an inspiring message for kids and the message also applied to the parents. "Be Someone" A message he had learned from his grandmother, who told him he would be someone when he grew up. Rob Surrette has performed at over 3000 schools and has been making his own positive impact on motivating kids to be a good and do something to help others. His website provides a pretty good demonstration of his work. I have also included a scanned version of his brochure at the top of this posting.

Also another very inspiring person I recently learned about was Jamie Clarke. He recently spoke at one of the conferences I attended. He described how growing up his mother often provided him the motivation to do what he love climb mountains. She may not have realized that he would some day be risking his life to do what he loved. Jamie shared how multiple failed attempts at climbing Mount Everest didn’t discourage him from continuing to pursue his goal. He has parlayed these experiences and his passion for climbing mountains into a career. Writing books, creating movies about his recent adventures and doing motivational speaking sessions for large audiences.

Both of these folks demonstrate how ordinary people that have a determination to do what they love or to reach a goal or make a difference are able to achieve great accomplishments. In both cases they have also found a way to make a great living while doing it. I believe in surrounding or exposing myself to positive people because their energy and motivation inturn inspires me. I hope my kids will be inspired too.

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Life is so strange when you don't know.

Life fustrates me sometimes because I realize how random it can be. Thumbing through some photography website I stumbled on some pictures of people living in Niger. What struck me most about the pictures was that no-one was smiling in any of the pictures. Thirty something pictures and not one smile. Not even the kids who are yet to know the challenges or joys life has in store for them. Or the truth is they may already know too well because they were not sheltered from it. Why was I born in Portugal and have a father who immigrated to the US? Why did I have parents that worked and cared for their family? I could have easily been born to a family in Nigeria and have been one of the kids with his head down looking at the sand. Even after you are born life or god can take you down differnt paths to different places. Places you never expected to be. Sometimes good and sometimes bad. Sometime you end up in a place because you made decisions or worked to get where you are or have what you have. But in reality I think 25% of my life is my own doing and the rest has been the cards I have been delt. Maybe God or something we don't know about, my family, who knows... When it is good you are afraid it will go bad.. When it is bad you are afraid it will never be good again. The reality is that things are always changing. So I don't fret when it is bad because I know it will get better. And when I get high, I share with those that are low.